Has VAR ruined football?

Today's PL match between Manchester City & West ham was largely interrupted by VAR It was no less used Three times to make the 'absolute correct decision'.

We know this was the brainstorm from FIFA and we saw first hand in Russia how much of a problem it could be.

I haven't seen any of the incidents today where VAR was used, but on 606 tonight a Man City fan was not happy with VAR it took away the enjoyment of football 'inside the stadium' and 'VAR has been brought in for the armchair fan'. was he right?

Should VAR be used more like a challenge in tennis - but that challenge can only come from the coach on the side lines and not by any player on the field of play?
I'm sure there was a rule brought in where players are not allowed to pressure referees to use VAR or they will be booked.

I would like to know your opinions on this before I add my own