could you do it?

I voted no, I don't think I could have a long term relationship with a glamour model or pornstar. The job would kind of get in the way, and cause too much tension in the relationship.

Sex yes, friendship yes, but long term relationship, I doubt it, so went for no.

I voted YES for a phone-in girl but would be a NO for a pornstar.

Wouldn't bother me at all having a long term relationship with one of the girls off the phone-ins but I doubt very much that Anna would be interested, lol. (just kidding Anna, in case you read this)

At the end of the day its just a job and as long as she didn't bring her work home with her I'd be cool with that. Don't know whether it's right to say this but it would be a huge ego boost to know that loads of guys fancy the pants off your girlfriend but she only has eyes for you, and its you she comes home to at the end of the day. Fuck! I'm shallow, lol. Honest but shallow.

As for dating a pornstar, I don't think I could. Imagine the conversation when she gets home: "Good day at work, love?"
"Yeah! Got fecked by in the arse by 5 guys"
That would be a conversation & relationship killer. The sex may be great but all the emotional baggage you'd have to deal with would be tough.

I'd be quite happy if my Mrs was working on the Babeshows as i dont really get jealous of her attracting attention from men (or women) and she does get attention in bars and clubs etc. That just makes me feel all the better for being the man she chose

The pornstar question is a difficult one to answer...If when i first met my wife she was doing porn then maybe it would never have gone beyond bangin a porn star, and if she suggested banging other guys for a living now.....im sorry i would have to put my foot down. Thats not suggesting porn/pornstars are bad/immoral, its just i dont want to share her with any other blokes...........Women are fine...as long as i get to join in ...so if she would only do GG porn then that would be great

(24-03-2010 22:32 )mdevil316 Wrote:  

(24-03-2010 22:23 )Tepid water Wrote:  As long as the girl was happy and safe doing it then I wouldn't care if they were doing double anal scenes all day long.

The fact she was coming home to your bed would be all you'd need to know!

you say that, and thats your opinion and thats fine but if she's sleepin with all these different men then even if she does come home to you theyre still getting the same as you.

i could maybe bring myself to be with a phone girl or a stripper but not a pornstar or 'escort'

Well they wouldn't be sleeping with her, just fucking for money... As long as she was ok with the difference then I would be.
They wouldn't be getting the same as me at all.

I could, yes. With the women working on the various "dial-a-babe" channels, well it's just waffle and hot air on a phone line isn't it? Hardly anything to put a strain on a fella who's comfortable with himself and secure about what he has to offer in a relationship. The same applies to porn stars or escorts. Provided your eyes are open going in, then everything's on the table and both people know where they stand.

However I have to qualify the above statement about dating a porn star or escort. If I found out someone I was already with, and had previously thought the relationship to be monogamous, had been making porn films or doing tricks without my knowledge, then it would be over. That has less to do with the job and more to do with betrayal of trust. If it was something they'd done in the past, then it's none of my business, to be honest. I've done some stuff in my past as well. It's not fair to judge who someone is now, based on something they may have done years ago.

Right, I think that about covers all eventualities.

As with all things, it would depend on the woman! Dismissing the chance to date someone and get involved with them and maybe be really happy with them on the basis of their job would be so short-sighted and wrong.

Unless of course they happen to be a traffic warden.

I think I could if she was just a babeshow girl but if she was a stripper, escort or anything beyond, whereby she'd be actually meeting other men, then I don't think so - if she's just on a babeshow then you know it's just waffle on the phone all day long to make the channel money etc - the trouble is, girls in this industry are simply out to make money and they'll always tell you what you want to hear so it's hard to know when they're actually telling the truth