When babeshows/porn messes with real life.....

So, I’ve enjoyed the babeshows on and off for over 10 years now.

About 6 years ago, I discovered a mates (let’s call her Lucy) brother’s missus (Kate) was on a channel, after discovering her on Adultwork and some of the videos involved the brother and chatted to her on adult work on cam a few times (she was damn hot and seemed to enjoy the fact I knew her in real life).

A few months later I realised Lucy had blocked me (had thought she’d bailed on FB, but a mate mentioned about her having a kid, which is how I discovered it was me blocked). The only thought was maybe it was cos of Kate, but then Kate said that she kept all of the antics to herself and her fella, as otherwise keep it secret.

Recently Lucy came up as a suggestion on Twitter, so I messaged asking the usual and what happened. I then get a reply saying yo never message her again, as I’m a dirty perv, that I used her Facebook profile to perv over Kate & if I contact her again, she’ll tell all our mutual friends about it all.

Obviously, Lucy has no idea of the real situation, as from the phrasing, she’s not aware that her brother & Kate made porn (and some of her stuff was some twisted roleplay stuff from wankitnow - I wasn’t into that FYI). Or that Kate was on adultwork escorting, camming and selling things.

I lost a good friendship for that. My first instinct was to reply pointing out all the facts, but decided against it, as she’d probably not believe me (tho could just link to here and one of the online porn sites) and then just tell our friends the story she knows, outing me.

I’m betting brother was the one that told Lucy though.....

Not expecting replies, but needed to write that out, just to process it all.

what was twisted about the win stuff? that stuff is soft

There was some taboo stuff in it.

like what?

That’s kinda off topic for the post really. I’m not into weird stuff, doesn’t float my boat. I’m a vanilla kinda guy.

(24-06-2019 18:18 )Legendaryconway Wrote:  So, I’ve enjoyed the babeshows on and off for over 10 years now.

About 6 years ago, I discovered a mates (let’s call her Lucy) brother’s missus (Kate) was on a channel, after discovering her on Adultwork and some of the videos involved the brother and chatted to her on adult work on cam a few times (she was damn hot and seemed to enjoy the fact I knew her in real life).

A few months later I realised Lucy had blocked me (had thought she’d bailed on FB, but a mate mentioned about her having a kid, which is how I discovered it was me blocked). The only thought was maybe it was cos of Kate, but then Kate said that she kept all of the antics to herself and her fella, as otherwise keep it secret.

Recently Lucy came up as a suggestion on Twitter, so I messaged asking the usual and what happened. I then get a reply saying yo never message her again, as I’m a dirty perv, that I used her Facebook profile to perv over Kate & if I contact her again, she’ll tell all our mutual friends about it all.

Obviously, Lucy has no idea of the real situation, as from the phrasing, she’s not aware that her brother & Kate made porn (and some of her stuff was some twisted roleplay stuff from wankitnow - I wasn’t into that FYI). Or that Kate was on adultwork escorting, camming and selling things.

I lost a good friendship for that. My first instinct was to reply pointing out all the facts, but decided against it, as she’d probably not believe me (tho could just link to here and one of the online porn sites) and then just tell our friends the story she knows, outing me.

I’m betting brother was the one that told Lucy though.....

Not expecting replies, but needed to write that out, just to process it all.

It's a fucking tricky one right enough.

(24-06-2019 19:38 )Legendaryconway Wrote:  That’s kinda off topic for the post really. I’m not into weird stuff, doesn’t float my boat. I’m a vanilla kinda guy.

what was weird about it?

Dude, let that go, I’ve said that’s off topic, not answering about that anymore and only sticking to the actual main situation of my post.

It's a valid point to be fair. Would help to explain why Lucy has reacted in this way.

At the moment we're only going in sort of half cocked and are just pissing in the wind.

cheers mate, that was what i was trying to say. i'm not a fan of pissing in the wind either