online dating = the most useless creation ever made

online dating = the most pointless creation ever.

why?

because women simply dont respond, nomatter what you say. you can read their profile, think carefully what to say, deliver it in a short and simple fashion with confidence, wit and personality, it makes f**k all difference. i was recommended to try it by a number of people as i never had a girlfriend, women dont talk to me and i still havent experienced sex but want to with someone special - i dont care how many messages they get from guys, the whole thing is such total bullshit. i'm not on one of those free sites but a proper one that requires a payment, and an articulate profile with all the trimmings. but its even harder meeting women online than in real life, and in real life they dont even look at you or acknowledge you're there, purposely ignoring you and walking past, hearing nothing.

women complain 'men are pigs' but the truth is they always go for the wrong person overlooking the good ones. who are the pigs now, bitches?

frankly, i think i'm turning into a misogynist. getting a women is simply impossible. it's just not possible! and sex is not real in my reality. its just something you see on tv or the stupid internet, not at all in real life. its like both are in different worlds.

people say its all about confidence. shame none of that helps in online dating. you can be confident all you want, 'love yourself', but if they reject you maybe its ok at first but if its all you get ten years later i highly doubt you can remain confident. people saying otherwise are talking shit.

i tried the 'arsehole' route too a couple of times, as the 'being nice' aka nice guy approach never works and you always end up in the f**king friendzone to which theres no way out. again, they didnt like it, they go 'oh youre nasty' to which someone should tell say 'well thats your fault as its what you always go for you stupid f**king c**t', smack them and walk away bumping their shoulder as they go.

another guy suggested enjoying a hobby - but again, the same principle applies. you could join a circle of people with similar interests, talk abot it, but after awhile the conversation dries and theres nothing left to say. and asking them out they always say theyre either busy, tired, 'got work tomorrow', or seeing friends or some other lame excuse. hobbies mean nothing. you cant bond with people through hobbies because they come and go or they got their 'own thing' going on. the exact same thing applies at work too.

as for learning to 'love yourself' and not giving a f**k what others think - well if you adopt that then quite simply you'll never score, because people would think itll be ok if you go them and using this as an excuse because they 'love' themselves so they wont be bothered by it.

and the worst bit is when they say 'you're a great guy, you'll find someone' - AHHH!! every time i hear these words i just want to smash something! its just their way of saying 'i dont give a f**k about you so try elsewhere'. i fucking hate women!

also: http://pofsucks1.wordpress.com/2008/01/0...s-for-men/ (can apply to any online dating site)
i'm clearly not alone.

its bollocks. just bollocks. i write individualised messages as i was trying not to be mr-cut-and-paste 'hey whatsup' 'youre hot' etc etc.

anyway, who cares.

spent the past week on this and i thought before doing it it might help but i cant even get a f**king reply!
cant get a woman online, cant get one in real life, what hope is there.
hell, i even went on an escorting site and messaged some women there too asking for their 'services', not caring even if i get an std because of desperation. guess what? no reply again!!

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story of my f**king life.

to you guys who got girlfriends/wives, i just wonder how the holy f**k do you do it?? its like i have some disability, or inability. am a freak.