Not just forum loyalty, but member loyalty

I may be wrong in part here. I'm not in possession of all the facts...
Kalel has been voicing a few concerns lately and he's been upset, also private messaging me about some of it too because he quite rightly trusts me.

I spoke to Kalel on the phone a number of weeks ago and I can vouch 100% that he is a very sound person, decent, honest and quite good fun if I'm honest.

Dudes, if I saw any of you (most of you anyway) being beaten up or victimised in the street, I'd f--king beat the shit out of your tormentors. I'm a decent guy & convinced most of you lot are too, but I'm not someone to f--k with when my friends are in trouble.

In this case I am not in possession of all the facts and I'm not trying to paint myself as some kind of hard man.
As the title states, this is about member loyalty and it's sad the times when the place seems to fall apart temporarily, when folk start being offhand with others publicly on threads or perhaps even in the chat box too.

If there is indeed some sort of bitching or victimisation going on at this time, if there are minor cases of people ganging up on others then know you are upsetting people.
Now go to your room and don't come down until you're ready to be civilised and talk things out with him or others (privately if possible)

I suppose my point is, I hope you're all looking out for each other, because believe or not, most of the folk you chat to regularly on here are some of the most decent people you know.

It's not just the babes that make this the best forum in years, it's the quality and character of it's regular contributors & moderators.

what? has something happened?

I have no idea whats going on here as I'm not on the forum long enough to read everything.

BUT...I hear you ask "Why bother posting here then?"

I will give you a scenario.

When I first joined the forum a 'model' said to me "Ere *chews gum* wtf you doin on there? that bunch of tossers do nout but send pervy pm's"

I'm a big girl & I like to think sensible.

Admin can bear me out here and has permission to read every pm I have received. Never once have I received a PM that was remotely suggestive, all I ever receive are respectful pm's.

Why is this? Why did this other girl say she got bombarded yet I get nothing?

over 7,000 members? bound to be a bit of a storm in a D cup from time to time.

I just want to point out we're all different, we all post differently & likewise someone may take to heart something that another doesn't think about.

I remain the Devils Advocate & I actually have started to enjoy the forum & the chatroom. I would also like to see other models join in from time to time & I will recommend this forum to them, long may it continue but please remember we do post differently.

Likewise I hope I have gone a little way to showing that not all models are the same either..*rolls eyes*

Just thought I would add that.

as above, whats happened?

Whilst I agree with your sentiments Emmaspuppy, I too think this forum is a great place to be and enjoy the (mostly) friendly banter between members but ........
Are you making a general statement as to what happens on the forum? or referring to a specific incident, its not entireley clear from your post!
As Firekind said "Has something happened???"

http://www.babeshows.co.uk/showthread.php?tid=4970

Thanks for that thoughtful post Kelly. Above is a link to were I posted your appearance in The Sport port today.

Sorry for my main post being a bit vague guys. Was showing some support for a mate of mine and reminding a few folk to think before certain posts is all.

Hi 5 to Kalel, right I'm off to do stirling work on a favorite thread of mine (and one for the lovely Emma Ashley to as it happens)

Wtf? Has somebody been saying shit about Kal? Why? The dude is like the best guy on the forum, no offence to others, you are all mostly close seconds.

have no idea wtf has gone on, i am only here for the banter and to pass comment on the channels don't think i could ever take anything on here too seriously or to heart but thats me