(30-06-2013 07:24 )The Silent Majority Wrote: (29-06-2013 20:04 )mido Wrote: (29-06-2013 18:18 )Tumble_Drier Wrote: (29-06-2013 16:06 )mido Wrote: so I again ask the question to those who previously said how outrageous his offer was.."What more are you expecting???"
Something that would settle the debt before the sun stops shining.
hasnt really answered the question. Before so much hate is put on someone trying to clear his debt (even if ridiculously slowly!) at £1 a month. put yourself in his shoes, he has no job. I am guessing he is not a homeowner, doesnt have a car of any considerable value, other debts and probably isnt independantly wealthy (despite his claims to girls). What more could you offer?
He's not 'trying to clear his debt' because at £1/month it's not 'ridiculously slowly', it's impossible.
If all I could afford, on a debt that size, was £1/month I wouldn't bother offering anything because I would be able to see how big a fool it would make me look.
Of course he could be immortal, in which case £1/month is fine 
in a court, if he wanted to avoid losing a home or possessions to pay for the debt, avoid additional interest and keep creditors off his back whilst waiting for his bankruptcy hearing this offer (regardless of how long it takes, its relative to his situation) would be seen as making an offer to pay the debt.
Paying nothing could lead to bailiffs attending his home to remove items to auction towards the debt, would result in constant phonecalls and communication with the creditor or debt recovery companies which is probably not helping his mental state. You have already acknowledged £55k of other debt (which i expect was to do with gifts for girls too), can you imagine the stress of getting calls every day for £145k when your getting about £50 a week? Creditors are not allowed to constantly harass for debts that you have agreed a minimum payment for and stuck to. As I have said I dont agree with what he is done I would be too ashamed to run to the papers for a start but realistically this is what he needs to do.
You cant just walk into the courts on a monday and ask to be made bankrupt, him sourcing money along with waiting for the hearing date will probably have been going on for a few months.
This isnt our hero offering it to stick it to the man, this is how the system works, get yourself in debt, lose your job so you have limited funds and see what any debt advisory company, the Citizens Advice or similar professional will advise you to do.