"U guys are really mean!!! I only go on the show twice a week and this forum is another way of me talkin to the ppl who call me on the show".
I agree with the point that other people do enjoy striking up conversations on here not only with the "babes" but with other people also but come on people what this guy says on here can hardly be described as "talking". Fawning? yes but talking? no. If this guy doesn't want to be ridiculed for the bilious tripe that he comes out with then he should send these messages in private and not leave them on a PUBLIC forum.
"The chat is very different to babestation and party people and we actually get to form friendships on the show. SO what if ppl want to talk to me on here n c if im ok. Not all men want to perv on the girls. So dont think its fair to gang up on ppl who want to talk to me properly. I actually prefer ppl who aprecriate me for who i am"
Ok, I realise I'm probably going to get slated for this but come on Bianca, grow up!!! You don't get to form "friendships" with the people that you interact with either via the TV or on this or any other forum. You wouldn't dare meet these people or give them any of yur personal information (such as address or phone number etc...) and I know for a fact that you are actively dicscouraged from meeting anyone from such mediums as mentioned above. Also he wasn't just asking how you were he was saying some quite silly and off-putting things (in my opinion).
madlib Wrote:Fair enough, but don't come crying to us when your woken from your sleep one night to find an obsessive fan standing over you naked with a knife in his hand who says he just wants to see if your ok.
Rod Crupe Wrote:Dude thats sick. If another forum member wants to pay appreciation to a girl on one of these shows then he can do so. You dont need to start putting horrid thoughts in other peoples heads suggesting that a member on here would go to that length. That is harsh and unfair. So can we put a stop to it and leave this thread for what it is.
Ok yes it wasn't the most tactful of replies from madlib (although I did get that it was sarcasm) but let's get real here. What the person in question was "saying" (and I'm not referring to madlib here for those who don't quite understand) was not at all appreciative it was both disturbing and quite absurd. If you need examples then you only have to read the posts from this guy. Some are just downright disturbing (and I've worked with disturbed minds for years so believe me - I know!).
In conclusion, Bianca I think it's safe to say that from now on most of us will leave this guy to his own devices and not intervene anymore (I know I certainly won't) and everyone else needs to get a grip and realise that not everything said on here is meant to be taken literally. The problem with the written word is that it has little or no context so it's not easy to tell if there is another meaning to it i.e. sarcasm etc...
Oh and before anyone starts having a go at me you need to read my other posts in this thread, you will find that I am not one of those who goes out of his way to denegrate someone. What I have written has been (mostly) in a respectful style.
Have a "realistic" day
Daz