Escorting

Jordan Jagger would be great, has anyone ever booked?

(21-11-2011 00:23 )a_j216 Wrote:  hey you lot, i have never used an escorting service before and i am thinking of trying it.

i will admit, the main reason is that i'm going to be 30 next year, and i've never had sex and its getting so desperate for me that i think about women/sex everyday, every hour. its hard for me to function anymore. i dont want to wait for 'the one' anymore, its simply not going to happen. i dont care if i lose my virginity to an escort. sex is sex at the end of the day but obviously i need to be attracted to them, and i'm not too fussy but BBWs are out of the question (not for me).

its gotten to the point in my life where my sexual drive is getting so crazy..even when 'going solo', coming once isnt enough and usually work myself to come more than once, then i get puffed. but its just not enough, i want to experience a woman in bed. but at the same time, as weak as it sounds, theres also an emotional element to it all too - experiencing closeness and intimacy.

i have been looking on adultwork.com for a few weeks and am amazed at the women i've found on there. i love to live my fantasies with some of them so i can grow and become more confident as a man. what i'm worried about though is paying alot of my money for someone who might not want to do it with me. alot say its 'just for the company' and anything else is of 'mutual consent'.. i then read feedback of some guys and some have got lots of feedback by women escorts saying stuff like they had the best orgasm ever etc, it makes me wonder how do these men do it if women say theyre getting paid for 'company'.
i do not know how escorts work. but i do know, that for example, i dont want to waste 45 mins of my allocated hour just talking - maybe spend less than 10 mins or so, then move to the bedroom and proceed from there. furthermore, i am unsure if prejudices are common in the world of escorts - i'm not a white man, for example, and i'm not very well hung (average size tbh). i'm not exactly great looking but i AM slim and look quite fit, definitely not fat (my BMI is of athletic region). also are virgins a turnoff to escorts as they'd want the best man for their time?

booking on adultwork.com looks complicated, and another concern is that i might probably get no reply. in fact i probably expect it. also, the money issue and whether i might get scammed etc. but i need to experience intimate company with a woman, it may sound silly but its almost like a medical problem in how intensified my sex drive, thoughts about women and finishing have become lately.

i was thinking of experiencing my first with jessica lloyd: http://www.adultwork.com/ViewProfile.asp?UserID=486828. in her vids theres one where shes having sex with some 40 yr old virgin and he doesnt seem to be a looker! shes amazing in everyway, i love to experience my first with her.

any advice from those who have used adultwork and have successfully experienced enjoyable sex with the escort? (apart from obvious stuff such as 0 feedback might mean fake profiles, be a gentlemen to the women, pay and dont haggle etc)

cheers

i can highly recommend starr i was a virgin when i went to visit her a few years ago and she was great really put me at ease and made it a day i will never forget for the rest of my life.

starr...weblink please?

problem is when you book an escort theres absolutely no guarantee for sex because nearly all of them say youre paying for their companionship only and anything else is of mutual consent. how can i make them consent to having sex with me. must i be really hot looking? is politeness and gentlemanly manners key? self confidence?

i'm an average looking guy but one advantage i have is that i'm not fat or bald. in my last job i used to exercise alot of self confidence and some women quite liked it - i served alot of yummy european female clients at a university.

(21-11-2011 23:04 )a_j216 Wrote:  starr...weblink please?

problem is when you book an escort theres absolutely no guarantee for sex because nearly all of them say youre paying for their companionship only and anything else is of mutual consent. how can i make them consent to having sex with me. must i be really hot looking? is politeness and gentlemanly manners key? self confidence?

i'm an average looking guy but one advantage i have is that i'm not fat or bald. in my last job i used to exercise alot of self confidence and some women quite liked it - i served alot of yummy european female clients at a university.

Jess Lloyd is lovely, if distance is no object send her an email, or phone her. And trust me it is her!

(21-11-2011 23:04 )a_j216 Wrote:  starr...weblink please?

problem is when you book an escort theres absolutely no guarantee for sex because nearly all of them say youre paying for their companionship only and anything else is of mutual consent. how can i make them consent to having sex with me. must i be really hot looking? is politeness and gentlemanly manners key? self confidence?

i'm an average looking guy but one advantage i have is that i'm not fat or bald. in my last job i used to exercise alot of self confidence and some women quite liked it - i served alot of yummy european female clients at a university.

They'll all have sex with you, that's just legal spiel. It has absolutely zero to do with looks, ability, status, anything. As long as you're paying and are clean and polite, they'll have sex with you.

so when i book an escort, should i say i want to do xyz sex positions with them, or ask what their 'services' are? hows it all done, do you pay and sign any paperwork on the day or something? some say the instant you engage in sex talk with them on the phone, they'll hang up.

and would escorts find it wierd if, for example, i travel from the south to up north to see one? (trust me, if shes hot enough, i definitely would)

(22-11-2011 00:32 )a_j216 Wrote:  so when i book an escort, should i say i want to do xyz sex positions with them, or ask what their 'services' are? hows it all done, do you pay and sign any paperwork on the day or something? some say the instant you engage in sex talk with them on the phone, they'll hang up.

and would escorts find it wierd if, for example, i travel from the south to up north to see one? (trust me, if shes hot enough, i definitely would)

If you book on Adultwork you can see the services they provide. If you travel a long way and they know its your first time they might even be flattered! You can also email them so you can think of eveything you want to say and write it down, might help?

The girls are experienced in seeing all sorts so they will take you in hand - literally!

Good luck

(22-11-2011 00:32 )a_j216 Wrote:  so when i book an escort, should i say i want to do xyz sex positions with them, or ask what their 'services' are? hows it all done, do you pay and sign any paperwork on the day or something? some say the instant you engage in sex talk with them on the phone, they'll hang up.

and would escorts find it wierd if, for example, i travel from the south to up north to see one? (trust me, if shes hot enough, i definitely would)

Look if its just protective sex, the escort does not mind what positions you do, doggy or cowgirl or etc. The only think that might be an issue is stuff like anal sex, BJ without a condom or other thing which could spread STIs.

(22-11-2011 10:26 )Paul71 Wrote:  

(22-11-2011 00:32 )a_j216 Wrote:  so when i book an escort, should i say i want to do xyz sex positions with them, or ask what their 'services' are? hows it all done, do you pay and sign any paperwork on the day or something? some say the instant you engage in sex talk with them on the phone, they'll hang up.

and would escorts find it wierd if, for example, i travel from the south to up north to see one? (trust me, if shes hot enough, i definitely would)

Look if its just protective sex, the escort does not mind what positions you do, doggy or cowgirl or etc. The only think that might be an issue is stuff like anal sex, BJ without a condom or other thing which could spread STIs.

You do know you can still catch STIs even with a condom, most noteably herpes, which im guessing over 90% of escorts and the men who see them already have.

if thats true, why on earth would people go to escorts unless they want to catch a disease?????????