(21-11-2012 20:34 )Gaz "AV1" Aston Wrote: As a parent i want it to be difficult ..no....impossible for my children to access porn on the internet...if that means that i have to answer a few questions from the powers that be when i buy a pc then so be it..
It will be no hardship for an adult to have to overcome a few minor obstacles in the form of installing a bit of software which will enable the RESPONSIBLE parent to access porn if they so wish whilst still ensuring that safety measures are in place for when there children do use the pc/laptop/tablet etc
I dont know how many people here are parents, but even if you aren't i cant understand the outrage at such a measure being made mandatory.
If you're a responsible parent then you install the software, if you're not a parent its really a non - issue anyway...Whats the problem?
Gaz, aren't you being a bit hypocritical or, indeed, hysterical? When for instance did you first see a top shelf men's magazine with pictures of women showing off their lady bits? I think I was about 12 when I found a bag full of Mayfair and Fiesta someone had just dumped by a hedge. When I was about 16, and already having regular sex with my school sweetheart, she found her dad's stash of hardcore mags which we both enjoyed looking through.
I know for a fact that none of this pornography did anything nasty to me. Sex is such a normal and natural part of life itself that 'Mother Nature' or Natural Selection simply CANNOT, WOULD NOT and DOES NOT produce any creature (no matter how supposedly 'intelligent') that can be harmed/twisted/corrupted/perverted etc. etc. etc. by the knowledge, sight or sound of its own means of reproduction and, hence, the survival of the species.
Sure, those who believe in a load of religious, moralising claptrap can claim anything they want. The fact remains however that society is not improved by denial of our sexuality. There is substantial evidence from many decades of studies to show that denial of our sexuality, suppression of our sexual urges, believing that sex is 'dirty'/'sinful'/'harmful' and so forth, is what causes sexual deviance in both young and old.
I think a responsible parent would explain to their children what relationships and sex are like for most ordinary people. I think they would ensure their children understand that porn is all very unrealistic and pure fantasy, because one thing is certain, blocking porn on the internet will not prevent children being exposed to porn in every other form of media such as magazines and DVDs. Even if the Dozy Mail get their idiotic way, no block will be 100% effective so your dream of "impossible access" is in itself an impossibility. Moreover, when a young person feels ready and wants to know more about sex and porn they should have easy access to such knowledge. They should not be made to feel like they're doing something wrong or that they're 'sick' and 'perverted', because it is precisely this type of response that perpetuates the Great British obssession with porn that most of the rest of the liberated world got over when they legalised porn in the 1960s.
I'm sure most would agree that the last thing our children (and adults!) need is a bunch of religiously warped fuckwits dictating what they can and can't see.
Adults and kids alike have had unfettered access to porn via the Internet for almost 20 years. If there were any real evidence that this has been bad for people then WHERE IS IT? Those so-called concerned parents have had the ability to apply filters to what their children can access for almost as long as the Internet has existed. WHY does anyone think we need mandatory blocking now almost 20 years after the proverbial porn floodgates actually opened? This is actually UNNECESSARY GOVERNMENT INTERFERENCE FOR THE SAKE OF UNNECESSARY GOVERNMENT INTERFERENCE - and that's a Violation of our Fundamental Human Rights!