(06-02-2012 13:12 )sophia knight Wrote: BOY/GIRL!
http://forum.sophiaknight.net/showthread...37#pid4237
As a mature young woman the decision is ultimately yours to make and its not one to be taken lightly as it would represent a further step into the adult industry. The impact on personal relationships both now and in the future is important: what would your family and friends think about this? Current or future partner? What about if you have children in a few years time?
A career in the adult industry can be lucrative but is relatively short, what are your long-term plans when you're 30, 35, 40? Doing B/G porn may hinder future career plans but who knows? Has the work that you've done so far already cast the dye in that respect?
How easily could you do B/G scenes? Is it something that you'd want to do with a regular partner/performer or is variety the spice of life? Munch made an excellent post on your forum about the routinisation and mechanical nature of much contemporary pornography, is that something that you can/could/want to do?
Is it financially worthwhile? Are you going to shoot scenes on an ad hoc basis or are you thinking of splitting time between the UK and LA? You've got the physical beauty to be a contract porn star and I'd suspect that you've got the ability to perform during scenes and deliver a few sentences of dialogue coherently.
Working on Elite is fine but it is fairly monotonous and not particularly challenging work, is it a new challenge that you need? That doesn't necessarily have to be in the adult industry but maybe it is. The health risks need to be taken into account if you are going to work with somebody whom you are not in a fidelitous relationship with. There are a wide range of unpleasant sexually transmitted infections around and although the testing process is good nowadays there are risks that cna have serious long-term consequences, especially in relation to the ability to have children in the future.
From my own perspective, I think you need to be a very strong person to do pornography because it can attract people who are actually deeply unhappy and find gratification through the adulation that it can bring. There are those who can compartmentalise it as 'just a job' and are fine with how works out for them but I think there are some people who are, at least in part, defined by being a porn star. How would you deal with that?
I've spoken to you on the phone several times, I've watched some of your work so far and it has been pleasantly titilating and I'm sure the sight of you in a B/G scene would take it another step further as you're a very attractive and sexual young woman and well, er, I'm just a bloke.
I hope/expect that these are all things that you've thought about, talked with other people about and so on but ultimately the choice is one that only you can make and whatever it is you deserve respect and support for it.