^ A succinctly excellent post Keith!
(27-09-2022 07:04 )nf-t fan Wrote: The girls are there to make as much money as possible. Nothing else.
This is indeed what the babes are supposed to be about as they do their jobs. I assume you posted it as a excuse for babes 'playing' their punters and not for the bad attitudes we often see?
If the former, I agree 100%. It's a babes job to fool a guy if she can. But it's how they go about that kidology that's important.
The right attitude for the right guy is key for a start. Some punters want eroticism, some want flattery, some even want abuse (can be a source for misunderstanding to those that witness). Many punters want to interact with a babe that can show she is powerful and exceptional. (We want our babes to be above the girl next door even when our fantasy is the girl next door type!) The latter is most easily achieved via an expression of 'attitude' (in both body language and words). The problem only comes when babes move beyond that fantasy making. Specifically, some babes seem to begin to believe their own bull! They clearly feel they can get away with expressing a ropey attitude towards all and sundry (that they then excuse to their regulars and assorted payers as frustation at 'the other' - troll, freeloader, timewaster - what have you).
Presumably, these babes tell themselves their cba-to-keep-up-the-image thing is them presenting as more real; being more honest and unfiltered in the way they work. But this misses the point that fantasy creation doesn't work properly if only done here and there. Painting payers as your friends doesn't wash if you're consistently horrid to brethren that differ only in the fact they are more sceptical in their usage. Guys notice, guys remember. They may overlook for a while but they don't forget. This stuff IMPACTS eventually. On both the babe's own standing and the industry's.
So to all babes hunting this "most money": Wouldn't it be more likely you'd achieve your aim if you presented an appropriate attitude with greater consistency and grace? Otherwise, financies aside, you also just perpetuate a situation where some guys kid on they're on your side just as much as you do to them! And that can't be good. For anyone.
For the moment though, I'm actually grateful to the poor babes that drop their guard as they do. Bad attitudes are actually a massive help to me in devining where I should put my credits. (That's any credits the shows manage to convince me I need. Which is not that fucking many atm I can tell you.
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