I've read the last few dozen posts and I kinda see both sides.
I have noticed a kinda trend amongst
some of the girls where they only turn up to either promote something they're doing, or to respond to some critisism or other, and
generally ignore the good comments. I haven't read this entire thread so I don't know if Caitlyn is one of them, but I know it happens.
When you get the situation of: "what x says doesn't bother me! so I'm making a special post to point out how much x doesn't bother me and I will argue against x then come back and respond to the comments about my comment, but s/he doesn't bother me! honest!", I can see why the good commenters complain, especially if they're shelling out £1.50 a minute.
Yes the girls are perfectly entitled to tackle critisism but I can see why the complimenters are annoyed.
On the flip side, I do understand that there is pressure to get calls, and that most guys will tweet, facebook, post here and ogle but won't call. I don't really blame them, £1.50 a minute adds up VERY quickly. And I know that's the price set by the channel not the girl, but I get it.
It is, in part, because of internet culture. You can get practically unlimited porn for free, webcam girls are cheap and do whatever you want any time of day, so why would you call someone on elite.
I see why Caitlyn is annoyed at lack of callers, and I see why there are lack of callers.
Now I'd like to stick in my view on the specific argument in this thread.
(11-05-2012 20:08 )caitlinwynters Wrote: Just so you know guys i honestly was considering the tease hour tonight but when chilly made out i must be desperate to do it, i decided not to!!
(11-05-2012 20:55 )caitlinwynters Wrote: I do not base my job on proving anything to arseholes. People like him are why girls stay reserved because no matter what we do, he will moan and complain. Im not talking dirty in my underwear for people who pick me apart on this forum. I have nothing to prove i just have not done a tease on elite and thought it may be fun. People like him make me realise otherwise.
I appreciate everyone who supports me and has a laugh!! Just maybe you should discourage morons like 'chilly' because he's actually ruining your fun!! Xxx
This is either a) a complete pile of crap, or b) a way to try and get "revenge" on chilly by getting people here to have a go at him for "ruining their fun", or both.
Everyone,
everyone on the entire planet will, at one time or another, take critisism from someone else. That's how it goes.
Firstly, you can't say how much he doesn't bother you then in the next breath says you've changed your plans because of it. (I am aware that other reasons were later stated for calling off the tease hour)
And secondly if you can't take a bit of mild critisism then you really should look into doing a job that doesn't involve other people.
I've had this conversation with two other girls on this forum, and it kinda pisses me off that the attitude is "oh praise I love praise, but annoy me and I'll throw a tantrum".
I don't know Caitlyn at all. I'm not making any judgements on her character. I'm more ranting against the general attidude of
some girls, citing this as a good example.