Escorting Personal Talk

it's tempting to make another booking but i forgot how small my bank account suddenly gets!

(03-08-2012 23:43 )a_j216 Wrote:  but i'm wondering if i'm still classed as a virgin or not. yes, i went inside her a few times, but it wasnt fully erect, and i never came. but i was definitely inside her and she even asked if i came when she felt a throb. but i didnt. its like i missed the point of the whole thing, and my mentality just went someplace else. why would an escort want someone like that back when they could get an equal deal from someone else who's much better from the hundreds of emails they get? i still count myself lucky. shes a sex goddess and even know when flicking through hundreds of other profiles to move on, she still stands out.

thats not to say i'll get clingy. besides shes married and has a sexbuddy of her own. you're right about the clingy thing, i don't want to do that. mind you i got a reply from her just now saying i should say all that stuff in a feedback. well, i suppose that means she took it well so another appointment to make up for the crap three hour appt is possible in the future and i can redeem my 'first time' my saving up for a massive explosion next time. that would be satisfying anyway, as with any guy.

Not that it matters but you had sex so you're not a virgin. And again, she doesn't care what you're like in bed, your money is the same as everyone else's. Maybe she'd prefer to see you again because it was easy for her? She probably has her regulars who get priority over the others if she's really busy but generally speaking an escort will take a booking from whoever's available as long as they aren't mental, dangerous, stalkers or whatever. Don't even think about her being married or her fuckbuddy or whatever, it's all totally irrelevant.

The reason she probably replied is so she gets good feedback rather than just an email. Don't start thinking she took it well or that she's even thought about your encounter since because she probably hasn't, she most likely saw another few guys that day.

Your biggest problem is you're really overthinking everything. It's a really simple process: Find a girl who is attractive and offers the services you need, politely and efficiently contact her with your exact needs, if she wants to see you, she will. Go to her place, be clean, respectful and pay her as soon as you get there then relax and let her take the lead. Say thank you, hug and kiss goodbye, give her good/bad feedback on her profile depending on how it went then move on. Don't contact her again unless it's about arranging another booking, these girls are generally very busy and don't want a clingy punter emailing them to apologise or whatever.

I never knew having sex with a hooker was so difficult lol

you pay your money, have a good time, leave.

a_j

The only important thing was if you had a good time!
The only bits we want to know are;
Who was she? (Maybe a link to her profile)
Was she any good?
and the whole point of the topic
Was she from one of the babeshows?

tbh no i didnt had a good time despite her being perfect and flawless. my anxiety fucked up the whole enjoyment of the occasion. not to mention this was arranged a few days in advance and was abit of a trek away to get to. you can't 'plan' being horny that way can you? there's noone in my local area and those near work and nowhere near my type anyway.
i cannot fault her in her performance. shes a blonde from california - fo real.
not a member of the babeshows, unfortunately.

seriously, you are making it harder work than it needs to be.

look at the proper sites, adultwork or punternet for example or look in the classified ads of your local paper.

then, when you feel horny phone one up and have some fun. it really is that simple

I bet there are more in your area, but you havent looked properly. where do you live?

who gives a monkeys? i travel alot anyway and am used to it. and yes i mainly use adultwork.
when phoning they either never pick up or get voicemail. my one encounter was arranged by email on aw.

hang on, you mainly use adultwork but only had one encounter?

If you travel a lot, then you have options where ever you go. If the phone was busy or went to voicemail, did you leave a message for them to contact you back on? did you phone from a with held number? How many did you actually try ringing?

It isnt that difficult to use adultwork and arrange a hook up. trust me, I know

If you are genuine, please answer the questions I have asked properly as I want to give you some advise depending on what you say.

God, how much more of this FFS " falling of a log" as easy as. Advice-- Get a few lagers down you before.

I know right, he is either taken the piss or should just not bother.

Tip one. you feel horny, look for someone and arrange a meet. tip 2, pay your money and have a good time, tip 3, leave