(26-04-2014 06:01 )Miss Cali Garcia Wrote: (25-04-2014 18:54 )Scottishbloke Wrote: First off it's always great to see when we have babes participating on this forum, it seems like a different age now when more of them used to do likewise.
Secondly my comments with regards to your show, it was nothing personal. It was my opinion, also I'm not the type of forum member that is going to change my stance. I don't do U-Turns. I have absolutely no intention of posting only what I know you want to hear. If I was to post that I thought you were brilliant the other night then it would be a lie. I think being honest is the only way a forum should operate.
As a babe yes you are certainly very attractive hence the reason you are in the glamour industry. If I seen you in a bar would I go and chat you up, ofcourse I would but this forum isn't about that. Its about brutally honest opinions. Also I've capped your shows in the past so I don't have an axe to grind with you.
Put on another great show then I'll certainly cap you again. I appreciate the fact that you visit and post on this forum but I'm not going to start giving you the ass kissing routine as a result of it. If you do a great show and I post it then you'll know its sincere and not just because I'm saying it to boost your ego
Opinions are welcome but insults are not. Ie-deadwood. It's interesting to see other posts you write- almost everyone is an argument and negative. I don't need your ass licking.. I'm just doing my job, bringing in calls and making money. Other babes don't come on here anymore because they don't want to read your shit! This will be the last comment from me because sadly I know how much you love the last word. Peace out x
Well maybe on this occasion Scottishbloke does not need to have the last word and I may boldly intervene
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Ok so deadwood may have been on the strong side but insulting?
Nope. It was a reflection on his view about your performances to which he is entitled whether he chooses to call or not and whether you like it or not. As he said it was nothing personal but merely a judgement on your performances.
What IS personally insulting is your tweet calling forum members 'pricks'.
What a feeble and pathetic insult to throw around.
Having read your posts some of them seem to be on the ratty side in response to any form of criticism.
Unless forum members are fawning over the lady's every move and word some babes don't like it. Furthermore every criticism seems to be treated as disrespectul, insulting or invalid from non callers.
Non callers are just as entitled to criticise as callers whether you or anyone else likes it or not. It seems some babes are incapable of accepting that any criticism is constructive or fair. It always has to be construed as a personal attack instead
. And those that do call up the shows will, no doubt be seen as pathetic lonely individuals who have nothing better to spend their money on anyway.
I put it to you that criticism should be treated as an opportunity to prove critics wrong and improve performance. This is what I have always been taught
. I am expected to always keep trying to be proactive and improve performance in my job and accept criticism with good grace. If I were said to be deadwood I know what I would think to myself.
Right I will show em how wrong they are.
And don't give me this egotistical "you do as you like while I make money" argument.
That sort of statement merely shows how out of touch you are with the hard working forum members in their own lines of work.
I note your statement about how hard you have to work with some degree of hilarity.
Maybe a reality check is in order.
Maybe you need to understand just how hard I or a lot of other forum members work in making our own significant contribution to the public good whilst, no doubt in some cases getting paid a lot less than you in the process. You also need to understand the cost of the calls too. £1.53 a minute from landlines and yes ok 60p per minute from mobiles on your channel
. This insinuation that the only people entitled to offer criticism are those who are willing to pay that money for the dubious distinction of doing so has always hacked me right off
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It is hard earned money being spent on having some fun.
What you might claim is a free wank for one forum member is presumably an expensive wank for others
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With all due respect I am loathed to accept any lecturing of anyone on here from someone who accused me of calling them fat on this forum when I rang them up and never subsequently came up with any evidence to substantiate such a claim.
It has been a while since this allegation was made but I note no apology has ever been forthcoming
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Finally with reference to your assertion that a lot of babes don't visit the forums anymore because of what you refer to as 'our shit'.
If you don't like what you read you have the option to do as they all did. It is your free choice
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Meanwhile we will all continue with our right to free speech without feeling the need to resort to ass licking.