(23-08-2023 03:32 )Bbefan_london Wrote: [snip}
I hardly know where to begin in answer to that dismal ramble of absolute delusional, sycophantic piffle that was initially directed at me seeing as it was a response to my post.
You may as well not merely stick your tongue up the arses of the babes and channel bosses but ram your whole head up there instead.
You just don't get it do you?
The process driven nature of the shows has turned people like me who used to interact for fun into those who see the shows for what they have largely become i.e a boringly, uninspiring, unimaginative, greed based rip off.
The culture of mercenary money grabbing has polluted the product and the mentality of the babes who now take opportunity to relentlessly engage in scam and deceit.
The behaviour of BS in particular and too many babes who represent them has become utterly reprehensible.
I have been interacting with the shows for a long, long time.
I will take no lectures from you or anyone else on levels of spend.
My phone and credit card bills will stand as testament to my engagement with the nightshow product down the years.
But my spend is now an awful lot less because the visual stimulus is just not there to the same level or consistency.
If some people are satisfied with babes just fixed in one position while waving their phones, moaning about freeloaders on the chatbox and looking thoroughly disinterested well that's up to them.
I dare say however many on a forum such as this have the right to express a desire for something rather more and better than that. I have acknowledged good performances and bad down the years. Good mentality and bad.
Worthy spend and unworthy spend.
Throughout it all I have expressed a desire for one trait above all others.
Honesty of endeavour. Something that is painfully lacking on far too much of the BS output. As soon as scam and deceit is called out on the chatbox the said chatbox posts get deleted. I have seen it play out too many times.
I cannot and will not sit idly by and let sycophancy win the day or night.
I and the the rest of the viewers have lives too set against the backdrop of a cost of living crisis.
We haven't all got endless pots of money to throw away on nightshow tip goals that are all too frequently either not obliged properly or played out on pervcam forcing people to pay through the nose twice.
I pointed out Beth, Atlanta and Michelle for a significant reason.
They actually put on a show within the rules that others seem either incapable or unwilling to do. And they do so with honesty, sincerity and without any sense of blatant greed and entitlement mentality.
They defy the culture of disreputableness that characterizes so much of the BS output.
Finally you mention mental health of babes.
I acknowledge their struggles and if the work environment contributes to this then consideration should be given towards a change in that environment initiated by those in charge of it. The hardest step though is to step out and admit there is a problem.
I have suffered my own mental health battle of recent times that nearly sent me to my grave. I have had both a friend and a colleague go through such struggle and not live to tell the tale because they were too ashamed to seek the support that I did.
If babes are struggling with the work environment I would urge them to seek help and not fight the battle alone.
I've been there and to a degree am still fighting it.
Life is a struggle not confined to just babes or viewers.
Struggles of life however are not made better by greed, dishonesty, deceit, scam and sycophantic blabbering.
Some honesty of endeavour would surely help everyone feel better and more valued.