Delusional "fans"

(09-06-2024 21:22 )ChrisM Wrote:  At the time, I would've sworn blind to anyone's face that she "liked" me and we were different. What we have is meaningful, and real. Of course, reality does eventually come crashing in and you have to accept that it isn't what you so desperately hoped, and if anyone was to hit me with the obligatory "I told you so" I'd be hard pushed to argue, but one area where I do disagree with the general sentiment of this thread is the assertion that all the girls literally treat it as a job, with absolutely no time or place for soft spots or degrees of affection for certain punters.

I think to state that as a blanket fact is to paint all the models with the same brush a little too broadly. Yes, there are some to whom that characterisation is entirely accurate, but there are plenty of others who unquestionably straddle the line and probably find themselves having to make a difficult decision at some point. In my case, the model retired from BS and (as many on here will state - entirely predictably) we haven't had any contact since, but when we said goodbye for the final time she was in tears (and this was a girl who NEVER showed emotion), so I'm sorry but I just can't subscribe to the notion that the girls do not or simply cannot care.

Maybe that means I'm still as delusional as ever, but for the record, I haven't used BS, Rampant or BSCams for over a year now. I don't even look at them anymore. And I accept I'm not a regular poster on here so feel free to dismiss this as the incoherent ramblings of a mad man (again, hard pushed to argue!) but I just wanted to make that point. Thanks to everyone that has contributed to this thread...it's more cathartic than you probably realise.

Wow, that kind of hits the nail on the head with my experiences with the Babeshows. I do agree that not all of the performers are just greedy mercenaries. Some have been pretty kind to me, and I did enjoy my time on the shows for the most part.

Reading this forum in particular helped me a lot. We all want enjoyable shows for the viewer and performer.

The Delusional Fan can take over off screen as well as on screen. In a sense some performers are trapped by their Delusional Ones, as they may be acting a certain way to appease THEM. I brought up my gripes on some other threads on here, but there are usually signs that some don't know the proper boundaries and it effects the the performer's mood during shows. I'm not a mind reader, but you sort of can tell when something is off about a show or a performer.

Some of us have had that moment of Self Awareness, so all hope isn't lost for the overbearing ones.

I'm happy to see I'm not the only one who this thread has helped

(10-06-2024 01:47 )ukusagolf Wrote:  The Delusional Fan can take over off screen as well as on screen. In a sense some performers are trapped by their Delusional Ones, as they may be acting a certain way to appease THEM.

This is an easily overlooked but scarily accurate observation too. I'm pleased to say I didn't have the urge to be that guy in the free chatbox thinking I ran the show...I've never been a keyboard warrior and I never lost sight of the fact that the performer is ultimately at work, so it's their obligation to attend to everyone, not just me.

What I did do was disappear into very long privates with this girl, often causing much consternation amongst others waiting to see/interact with her. And while looking back I now realise that it was most likely a case of me being simply less 'annoying' to her than sitting in the public chat dealing with the masses, she did start to structure her shifts around my presence and ability to do that.

I know that in the cold light of day, she was probably just using my obsession to her own advantage, but it does make me wonder if my actions unintentionally affected her standing and popularity on the platform...and that's another rock I really don't need to look under in relation to my past delusions!!

I can't believe a punter made this and it's been signed 112 times

Demand Babestation TV to Terminate Preeti Young for Unprofessional Conduct

https://www.change.org/p/demand-babestat...al-conduct

^Things like that exist to make the rest of us feel normal

(28-07-2024 17:02 )ryuken Wrote:  I can't believe a punter made this and it's been signed 112 times

Demand Babestation TV to Terminate Preeti Young for Unprofessional Conduct

https://www.change.org/p/demand-babestat...al-conduct

There's no hope Parliament will discuss it lol

(28-07-2024 17:02 )ryuken Wrote:  I can't believe a punter made this and it's been signed 112 times

Demand Babestation TV to Terminate Preeti Young for Unprofessional Conduct

https://www.change.org/p/demand-babestat...al-conduct

That’s gotta be Steve Dawson again

Petition started by "Bin Laden".

Just had a look through this thread and I gotta say, I think it makes some valid points.

I dropped in on the channels online yesterday and briefly on Friday and saw countless "babe pm me" requests and the inevitable "banter"

It instantly gave me an assumption of two things, (two things I've noticed mentioned here already)
Too many guys think they have a real connection/friendship with the girls
Too many guys think they are owed something extra for their spending

Ive worked in psychology as well as mental health and can tell, from language used and behavioural traits that much of this is taken way too seriously by people.

As a post said earlier in the thread, have fun, enjoy but don't take it too seriously. It's not healthy.

^Luckily I was able to break free from spending on there (even though I still keep up thru the forum and other means)

This thread helped me a lot in noticing my tendencies
Your two points are very accurate, I'll will say.....
1) Some of the girls play into the connection/friendship aspect off air to get you to keep spending
2) I gave up spending cause I did feel I was owed something for my spending. What I mean is a request or completed tip goal. I felt I was just if I completed them or spent heavily on them.
The problem on there is, I was dealing with other deluded spenders. You can't keep up when someone is spending a lot more and requesting something different after you spent your money

I mainly spent and indulged in banter cause I wanted the performers to DO something. I thought if they were actively looking at the chat and getting paid for it, it could lead to a more upbeat show. I still believe that, but many shows have degenerated into PM fests, fishing for privates, and trying to lure off air spenders onto the shows