RE: Would you be angry or turned on?
Stop this, right now!!! Like so many others, you are playing with fire without knowing what a dangerous territory you are lurking in. Because of present babe channel epidemic, many men blatantly fantacize about 3somes involving another woman. With this 3 some, we men get to experience sex with 2 women instead of 1 woman. To us, it is still a form of hetero sex. However, as for the woman, this is a lesbian sex act that she has been pushed into.
You see, unlike men, 60% of women are born with lesbianic tendancy. Most of them do not act on such dormant impulse but nonethless they carry this capacity to connect sexually with another woman. The experience of 3some often awakens this side of woman. Dealing with the spouse's waywardness is one thing, but dealing with her sexual orientation is something else. Lesbian sex is often more intense and more satisfying than heterosexual sex, to women. And, you add emotional compatibility unique to women, no matter how confident you are, you stand no chance.
You voluntarily encouraging your beautiful woman into lesbianism would be downright crazy. Real life is not like the babe channels. Don't be a fruitcake!!! Out of your feverish sexual fantasy, you would not only be ruining a good marriage but also a good woman, who happens to be your wife. Don't do this.
Before she falls deeper in this forbidden realm, do everything you can to pull her back out. Demand NC and stop this sexual experimentation crap immediately! I guarantee you, one way or the other, you will destroy your woman and your marriage.
There used to be a time people see sex as something dirty out of their ultra-conservative mindset, but after sexual revolution, some people start to see sex as something they can "experiment" with, pushing the envelope outside what is considered "normal". What people don't realize is that "sex" is truly a power to be reckoned with. Don't mess with it. It is to be treasured and protected between the two loving spouses in their privacy. What you are doing is incredibly destructive. We see cases like yours time and time again. We see so many men wrapped in the babe channel fantacy of 3some or what not drive their beloved woman into swinging and lesbianism, only later to regret so bitterly. It is not uncommon for wife to fall in love with lesbian lover to leave the marriage or struggle with the confusion over their sexual orientation after such experience.
Your fantasy must stay on the TV.
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