I am not a bully

Yesterday i felt i was bullied/abused in reaction to a thread which only sort to resolve the question of visual stimulation versus call stats,i did not set out to bully anyone,i have recieved two responses from two different mods,one telling me that it appeared to him that i was the bully,which i deny, and suggesting i should be banned and another telling me to get thick skinned but if that means i cant defend myself when someone suggests i'm dim then its not worth me staying here anyway,one thing i would say is that it seems odd that two mods can have completely different views on the same issue,surely they could have come to a decision together,that aside i have enjoyed my time on here and feel sad its come to and,thanks to all those who have treated me well during my time on here and i wish you all the best for the future.

I don't know anything about the incident you're referring to, but I have never thought of you as a 'bully'
I admit your style of posting did used to irritate me, but not now. It's not that you've changed much, it's more that I've recategorised you (in my head) as 'mildly eccentric' (I hope you take that the right way)

I would agree though, you do seem a bit thin skinned at times. Maybe that's the bit you need to work on?

Hopefully the thing with the mods is a misunderstanding

this thread is also a misrepresentation of the facts. nobody on the mod team called you a bully or suggested you should be banned.

Unfortunately there's a bullying attitude with some on here, I've not seen you as one of them, may be they where bullying you.

People tend the throw words like bully and troll around willy nilly these days, may be they don't understand the meaning of them.

(26-12-2016 13:55 )terence Wrote:  this thread is also a misrepresentation the facts. nobody on the mod team called you a bully or suggested you should be banned.

I know what i read from one mod differed to the other one.

^well, we are different people mate, with different views.

I've never thought you as a bully even though we have differences of opinion, mainly on visual stimulation.

just seem at times determined to prove that your opinion is right and anyone else's is wrong. Rather than trying to prove you are right, just agree to disagree with them

having seen the tread lastnight the only one being bulled was Jimmy, and was attacked by people from a group who think there can do anything they want,
i am disappointed that one of the forums nice guys has been forced out,
not everyone has a think skin and some do need more looking after, if what jimmy says is correct then i am disappointed in the mod team, as i have not seen an attack on here like that in some time,

^ http://www.babeshows.co.uk/showthread.ph...pid1979973

(26-12-2016 15:01 )terence Wrote:  ^ http://www.babeshows.co.uk/showthread.ph...pid1979973

thats good but still dont deal with what was going on last night