Delusional "fans"

That depends
I don't do the babeshows at all now
BUT
i do spend lots on OF.. custom videos and such
I've even met a few of the girls for fetish fun
Every single time it's a business transaction...they provide a service ..I pay for it
Whilst there is a very small minority who get caught in a fantasy, I'd like to think most of the people spending money are more grounded than people think

(18-11-2023 21:24 )nf-t fan Wrote:  I think that those that spend a thousand or more of pounds on tips and buzzes every week (just look at the BSTV tip leaderboard) or spend hours in private every week are just as delusional as some of the mentioned in earlier posts. Who knows how much they also spend on Onlyfans, which they are probably on, too. They are probably wealthy, but they are just as fanatical and delusional. Maybe more so, because they have more money. IMO

That depends
I don't do the babeshows at all now
BUT
i do spend a LOT on OF.. custom videos and such
I've even met a few of the girls for fetish fun
Every single time it's a business transaction...they provide a service ..I pay for it
Whilst there is a very small minority who get caught in a fantasy, I'd like to think most of the people spending money are more grounded than people think

^^^

That's a very good point nf-t fan.

ShandyHand's The Psychology of the Spend thread is brilliant on this topic https://www.babeshows.co.uk/showthread.php?tid=83099

I don't know why Whales just don't hire an escort instead, fucking a woman is so much more fun.

The post referencing the guys in the chat box is bang on, and it was actually some of those fans that inspired me to start this thread.

For some reason they have this belief that they are mates with the girls and connected to them in some way. They really aren't!!

A recent interview with Stella Paris further highlighted this where she said "babestation is an act." I wish more customer's took note of this.

There is another guy on twitter that called every babe his "friend/close friend/special friend" etc and it's just a little weird. You don't know these girls, they don't want to know you. Accept that!

(19-11-2023 12:48 )SophieHartIsMyQueen Wrote:  For some reason they have this belief that they are mates with the girls and connected to them in some way. They really aren't!!

This is bang on the money! I was an Evelyn fan for a long time but there are guys (PimpT as already mentioned in this thread, also jj33 who is another overly obsessed fanboy and will pretty much spend his entire wage packet on Evelyn - that info was given to me via PimpT)

These guy's have gone past fantasy and have now got lost in the fog of reality and fantasy clashing imo - I have absolutely no sympathy, especially for the two guys I've highlighted

If they can't see sense into what they're doing then it's their own fault imo.

And fwiw, PimpT totally destroyed Evelyn's shows long ago, although you'll still get the blind fanatics (especially the two I've highlighted) thinking they have something beyond a simple service of pleasure. I for one will laugh my ass off once Evelyn retires because it'll be interesting to see how these delusional twats react .

I think deluded fans tend to fall into two categories.

Aggressive - Punters that get upset with the babe and/or other punters, just because a babe is busy with another punter.

Sycophantic - Punters that are constantly over-complimentary to a babe, and argue with other punters.

Those both those type of punters tend to think a babe really loves them. But really the babe only tolerates them because they need the money.

Scratchy abuses Tanya in the chatbox because she's busy with another punter. Then he'll get blocked, or create another username on BS, SM or BSCams.

And then she'll tell him to pay her £100 to get unblocked or is allowed to speak to her again, and they he pays her. It's the circle of life.


EDIT - BajanDougieJoe21 just wrote that Tara T is his best friend in her chatbox

I saw him arguing with ElGringo1984 in Valentina's chatbox the other day.

Because she hadn't sent a top tipper prize to ElGringo1984, which he politely asked when he would receive.

And then BajanDougieJoe21 barrelled in saying leave her alone and don't be rude

Chatboxes have become more entertaining than the shows now

Pretty much right among with the persona types there.
What I find a little concerning regarding this behaviour is that it makes me wonder, what do you really have going on with your life to devote so much time and money to an entertainment platform where the person entertaining you is literally trained to extract as much cash from you as possible.

Too many guys, in my opinion, think they flashing the cash on buzzes makes them more endearing. It doesn't, it just highlights how gullible you are.

I love that some babes totally call out the weird behaviour and tell guys to fuck off. Others though, love it and intentionally or not, pray on these guys weaknesses

(19-11-2023 11:43 )ryuken Wrote:  ^^^

That's a very good point nf-t fan.

ShandyHand's The Psychology of the Spend thread is brilliant on this topic https://www.babeshows.co.uk/showthread.php?tid=83099

I don't know why Whales just don't hire an escort instead, fucking a woman is so much more fun.

I know, right?? Some spend insane money on buzzes and tips week after week. I guess they would rather blow their load into a tissue from some babe on a screen instead of onto some babes tits in person. lol

(19-11-2023 16:17 )ryuken Wrote:  I think deluded fans tend to fall into two categories.

Aggressive - Punters that get upset with the babe and/or other punters, just because a babe is busy with another punter.

Sycophantic - Punters that are constantly over-complimentary to a babe, and argue with other punters.

Those both those type of punters tend to think a babe really loves them. But really the babe only tolerates them because they need the money.

Scratchy abuses Tanya in the chatbox because she's busy with another punter. Then he'll get blocked, or create another username on BS, SM or BSCams.

And then she'll tell him to pay her £100 to get unblocked or is allowed to speak to her again, and they he pays her. It's the circle of life.


EDIT - BajanDougieJoe21 just wrote that Tara T is his best friend in her chatbox

I saw him arguing with ElGringo1984 in Valentina's chatbox the other day.

Because she hadn't sent a top tipper prize to ElGringo1984, which he politely asked when he would receive.

And then BajanDougieJoe21 barrelled in saying leave her alone and don't be rude

Chatboxes have become more entertaining than the shows now

I know it's sort of dangerous for me to enter the discussion, since I may fall into the Delusional category.

First, I want to say a big thanks for starting this thread, as I think it may help some of us out (I know it's helped me out).

I've noticed a lot more of this sort of behavior the last month in the chats. Don't know why now it's popping up more, but I think these battles have been going on behind the scenes for a while.

We all know it's a fantasy, so just leave it as such

Thanks for appreciating the thread and I'm glad if you feel it's helped.
It was certainly never an intention to make anyone feel uncomfortable or single out anyone. It was moreso that in an industry such as this, there are inevitably some are complete mixture of people, some that have a bit of fun with it and some that take it too far.

I wanted to highlight that those taking it too far may need to readdress behaviours in some cases. I know that many probably don't think they are taking it too far, but in us raising some of the common issues, they may begin to realise which behaviours may need to be toned down a little.

Of course, as said before, enjoy the channels, appreciate the presenters, just understand, its a job, it's an act and outside of OF and the studios, they have normal lives too!