Punter Misconceptions

A lot of babes think punters are sad and lonely old men. That can't have sex with women in real life unless they pay for it.

But I think there are a lot of punters that use the channels in addition to the sex that have in real life, instead of a lack of.

This is a good topic for me to jump in as a self admitted Punter

I'm just going by my own background, so I voted lack of real sex
I suffer from a Mental Illness, so since the pandemic it's been a struggle for me to go out and enjoy the outside world.

I don't think all punters are built the same though. I have interacted with a few of the bigger ones, and they do have a life away from the channels. If they've built a decent amount of income to spend on the girls, they do have the skills needed in the real world. So, the channels may just fill the time between their social life and their fantasy life.

^I think both can be true, indeed are true! Another may be personal circumstances (physical) which in the 'real world' can be a stigma or a rubicon just to big to cross (me) Building relationships can then be difficult (fear factor) where as interacting with the girls online, or (I include escorts in this context) - carry with it no 'baggage'. Both are a 'transaction' in a sense from which both parties walk away - 'eyes wide open' - with nothing lost by it??

I wish you well ukusagolf! Such a difficult situation to be in, and one that people are still all too ignorant about! Provision in the UK - certainly NI - to help in this situation, is still sadly lacking! I sometimes think that policies around dealing with the issue of mental health should be delegated (devolved a better word??) to the professionals trained and qualified to deal with it, rather than centralised, and the funding provided come what may, to allow them to create said policies, and implement them to best effect, rather than a political imperative as the driving force. There have been too many instances of people falling through the cracks, with a swift - for the optics - 'we will learn the lessons' - they never seem to do so!!

(03-12-2023 11:24 )ryuken Wrote:  A lot of babes think punters are sad and lonely old men. That can't have sex with women in real life unless they pay for it.

But I think there are a lot of punters that use the channels in addition to the sex that have in real life, instead of a lack of.

So, as with many things you're saying it takes all sorts...well that's hardly a revelation is it?

I have some strong opinions about certain "babes" but I tend to tone them down a bit on here (oh yes I do /panto) lest I upset one of the delicate little flowers

The more time I spend with women in real life, means I have less time to spend watching the channels.

The more money I spend on babes, means I have less money to spend on women in real life.