Personally I feel that this is all pretty ridiculous, from the “Have a go heroes” who really don’t need to jump in to defend a “Damsel in distress” to the nasty and somewhat childish comments coming from what I would only assume to be fully grown, so called “adults”.
This is where the divide on a forum such as this between the viewers and the girls who work on the shows is abundantly obvious, but unfortunately quite difficult to avoid.
Okay, so lets remember that this isn’t just a forum full of guys anymore where we can talk about the girls on the shows in any way we please, as many of the girls now frequent this forum on a regular basis, we must remember that using insults or derogatory terms to describe them, or furthermore their friends will only result in more insults… thus manifesting into “Slanging matches”, such as girls referring to the guys who watch the shows as “pervs” or “socially inept/retarded” ect… which in turn will only cause the insulted to once again insult, and so on and so on.
I think that these conflicts will keep happening unless the guys here realise that the girls who post here are real people with feelings, and while talking about them like a bunch of lads at a pub is fine on other forums, with the presence of them here, we really need to be more understanding of this and keep criticism as nothing more than constructive.
Now, I’m not saying that some opinions about certain girls are wrong at all, and if this was a forum full of just guys, these kinds of comments would be absolutely fine. But the fact is, it isn’t!
Now I’m also not saying that the presence of the girls in an entirely good thing, when it comes to, in particular the atmosphere of the forum… but they are here and we must understand that insulting them in anyway, will only lead to them retaliating.
This is not aimed at the op, but just in general…
For the sake of peace and tranquillity, before you make a post about a certain girl, please consider that she may read it and be hurt or offended, and even if you are completely in the right, just be aware of this and try to be as positive as possible in that post and refrain from name-calling or anything that you know will (most likely) cause offence.
Look, I’m not blind, personally I think that Denni herself is guilty of acting somewhat childishly in this thread, but hearing negative things about your friends or yourself is never nice and will often lead to such behaviour.
There are many threads I stay out of and choose not to comment on due to fact that it is more than possible that the girl who it is about may be reading it, does that make me a pussy? Maybe, I would rather see it as being considerate for other people’s feelings…
Look I’m not saying let’s all be kiss-asses and only tell the girls how much we love them, because that shit is kind of ridiculous too... but it is obvious that if you choose to insult a girl who posts here, she will in most cases retaliate, and once again whether you are right or wrong, arguing on the internet with hot girls is pretty dumb! So let’s all try and get along and just consider that what you are writing may hurt somebody’s feelings and cause pointless drama which only, in the end makes all parties involved look pretty ridiculous.