Addiction To Calling & Financially Crippling Phone Bills

(12-03-2018 12:26 )Ducky Wrote:  7 Weeks Sober.

And no giant phone bill to dread this month.

Good job. How do you feel?

That's really great to read your progress. I think its important though to use the money which you haven't spent on calls, in a way which re-enforces the positivity of what you have achieved.

What I mean is this, say you would have spent 100 quid on calls. Use 100 quid that you didn't spend on calls, in a tangible way instead. You could use that money to pay down other debts. Or you could put that money in to a savings account. Or you could by yourself something. In other words, reward yourself for doing the right thing in a tangible way. This will help re-enforce the message that you sacrifice has produced a tangible gain for you. This will help your willpower as well because if you begin to weaken, you"ll have something tangible to point to, to combat the temptation to go back to destructive habits.

Great effort on your part

Yeah. You used to wank it, now I suggest you bank it

That's really great to read your progress. I think its important though to use the money which you haven't spent on calls, in a way which re-enforces the positivity of what you have achieved.

In other words, reward yourself for doing the right thing in a tangible way. This will help re-enforce the message that you sacrifice has produced a tangible gain for you. This will help your willpower as well because if you begin to weaken, you"ll have something tangible to point to, to combat the temptation to go back to destructive habits.


I think as a treat, you should go to your local Massage Parlour/ Escort Agency and get yourself half an hour with a real woman instead of these "Prima Donnas" on the channels. My local lady charges £50 for half an hour, far better than DIY!!

(13-03-2018 11:30 )irishcyclist Wrote:  That's really great to read your progress. I think its important though to use the money which you haven't spent on calls, in a way which re-enforces the positivity of what you have achieved.

What I mean is this, say you would have spent 100 quid on calls. Use 100 quid that you didn't spend on calls, in a tangible way instead. You could use that money to pay down other debts. Or you could put that money in to a savings account. Or you could by yourself something. In other words, reward yourself for doing the right thing in a tangible way. This will help re-enforce the message that you sacrifice has produced a tangible gain for you. This will help your willpower as well because if you begin to weaken, you"ll have something tangible to point to, to combat the temptation to go back to destructive habits.

Great effort on your part

Thank you I'm feeling way more upbeat and positive and I spent approx £100 on new duvet covers, curtains, throws, lamps and a light shade to revamp my bedroom with this month's wages.

Next month, it'll be much needed new clothes and the month after, actually see about asking someone out on a date.

Hey Ducky.

3 months on. Is no news good news? You still on track?

I was thinking the same thing the other day

(30-06-2018 13:47 )Carl43a Wrote:  Hey Ducky.

3 months on. Is no news good news? You still on track?

14 days sober

I couldn't help but give Reed Amber a call, but even though it wasn't with naughty intent, she still insisted "draining me" lol.
We then had about 10 minutes of fun chat as she's lovely to talk to and quite witty too.

Aside from that, I've only had a few minor relapses and quite proud of the fact.
I'm now going to log out without viewing the babes that are currently live, because I fear giving into temptation.

P.S. Well done England, it's comin' home!

30 days sober

(approx)

Very, nearly, almost had a relapse, but thanks to ee call settings taking up to 24 hours to be applied via their website, I was unable to call the stunning Reed Amber during her recent night show segment.

After 4 failed DESPERATE attempts to get connected to S66 (because ee had me barred from making premium rate calls via my contract mobile phone), I eventually gained control of my faculties, logged back into my ee account and manually set my premium rate permissions to blocked again.

I try to resist, but I'm only human... and Reed is a Goddess