Have You/Would You Buy A Babeshow Girl A Gift?

I think the modern term is "financial slave"?

Unless I was getting something out of it, I wouldn't get a thing for anyone. If I was getting someone a £1000 laptop, I want more than a dinner date.

I am getting put off some of the models by some of their wishlists. I ready did like one model, but when she started tweeting about wanting a laptops on her wishlist, it ready has put me off them now.



If any model reads this thread and has a wishlist, if they have any dignity, delete the wishlist!

dont forget the merc stuff they do.

i think its wrong on both sides.

(23-01-2011 07:09 )Paul71 Wrote:  I think the modern term is "financial slave"?

I think a distinction needs to be made between the types of guys who buy things for the babes. On the one hand there are the guys who spend money on the girls out of affection, be that genuinely reciprocated or not. On the other there are those who do it as a sexual fetish.

Financial domination is a *huge* fetish. Many of the Dominas on my website are involved in it, some exclusively so - they do nothing else. I think this is one of the most misunderstood fetishes. It's easy for people to dismiss it as just girls ripping off gullible guys, but it's incorrect to do so because fundamentally it's no different to any other fetish. It's the sexual manifestation of complex psychological factors and as such is no more or less valid than any other fetish, be it boots, balloons, dressing up as a pony or whatever.

My first ever interaction with a Dominatrix was in this area. I saw a picture of a Dominatrix in a magazine and for then unknown reasons, became incredibly aroused at the thought of sending her money. I spent days wanking over the idea, playing it over and over in my mind. Then eventually I rang her secretary, got a PO Box address and sent her some money. Not a lot, I think it was just £10 or so, but when I got home I had such an intense climax.

No doubt people will read this and just not be able to comprehend why I found it such a turn-on, but similarly I don't understand guys who, say, get turned on by nipples. I don't get it at all. The point is we can't do much about the way we're wired, sexually speaking, so we shouldn't rush to judge the turn-ons of others who equally can't change their wiring.

Thanks for that Danni! I have to admit I've never heard of financial domination in the context you describe it, and you are absolutely right in that no-one can help the way they are sexually wired. I have to admit that I am personally much more attracted to women's nipples than to paying money to women I've never met, and I do find it difficult to comprehend your 'wiring', but fair play to you for having the honesty to say what you've said, and it does put an interesting new angle onto this discussion.

However, if I was to be honest, I would guess that these girls who publish wish lists don't really have financial domination on their minds. I would guess it goes something like this:

From a young age, they were probably seen by their peers and the boys at school as being the 'fittest' in their year, they thus attracted the attention of the most popular boys in school, who would fight for their affections with gifts and gestures. In order to keep said girls, the boys would probably have to bestow ever more lavish gifts upon them. The girls would then think 'hey, this is easy' and start dropping hints such as 'but if you REALLY love me...' and giving it the eyes, and hey presto, they've got that outfit they wanted for free.

They've probably seldom had to pay for luxury items from their youth, and this mentality has been ingrained into their mindsets. Now they are minor celebrities with fan-bases; through today's socail networking organs they can easily play the 'but if you REALLY love me...' line and, knowing that there are many sad/lonely/deluded men out there, they cast the bait into the river, sit back and wait for the gifts to come rolling in.

I've said it before, and it's been argued that the babes don't visit this outpost of the forum, but listen up carefully and you'll be deafened by the mute silence of the female members on this thread. And that very silence, methinks, speaks so much louder than ANY of the posts on this thread!

Well I sent Ashley Doll a 'Clone' of me

Hey guys, had to comment on this one!!!

Personally, I think it's immoral for girls to solicit for gifts - I get satisfaction out of saving and buying things with my own cash and as so many women are touting the "independant" flag, why on earth would they want to rely on a man for things I'm sure they could clearly afford to purchase themselves!!!! Mmmmm....

Equally, I have heard of guys who become so infatuated with girls that they do offer to buy them gifts and in that situation you have to accept that even if the girls protest, the guy has a right to spend his money how he chooses.

However, if you any of you do insist, I'll have a Mocha from Starbucks please, (I'll pay for the delivery) as long as I can return the favour lol

Keep viewing guys, love and hugs, Foxy xxxxx

thought i would post a comment on here as i have a wishlist & i also know Kitty & Alice (who have been mentioned several times in this thread)

i'm sorry to say that i disagree with the comments about girls 'using' guys & 'laughing at them' for sending gifts. Us girls do not manipulate, force or persuade fans/callers to buy us presents all the time at all!

in my case, i have a few regular callers who want to send me presents for birthdays/christmas/valentines etc. and they ask me what i want. Wishlists simply make it more easier for them to choose something i would actually like....

i agree with those who have said it is not a problem, if it makes the guy happy & the girl happy, what is the harm?
Most girls also send goodies back to say thanks as we are very grateful when we receieve fanmail. People usually appreciate receiving a signed photo back as a thank you.

- i must make a point to also agree about financial domination, you would be surprised at the amount of men that call up asking to be dominated and want us to tell them how much we want to spend there money etc. they literally beg for us to ask for presents & money!.... in this situation maybe we would 'demand' stuff... but only because they WANT us too! its a fetish, they like to be treated like slaves (kitty is very popular with these type of guys which is probably why she really pushes for presents so much - they absolutely love it)
- actually receiving something from them is a bonus!
(i mean, come on - if someone was offering you money or presents to make them feel good would you honestly say no or turn them down?! - i think not)

overall i just wanted to voice my opinion and make a point.
although i can understand why some of you are very angry & think wishlists are cheeky and a silly idea... and guys are mugs for spending so much money on girls when they already spend loads on the phone... that they are actually harmless, they do not provoke crazy stalkers lol and that they are simply a gesture to help out fans who really want to treat us girls.

as for those who get caught up between 'fantasy' & 'reality' - yes that is kinda scary! lol ... but not our fault! and don't think that stems from us asking for presents... we are just doing our job, if they take it too far and get obsessed then its a shame. (& we just have to hope they never hunt us down! ahahahaaaa)

yes we make good money & can afford our own things, that is not why we make wishlists! we are not begging or seducing people to buy things. we are just answering some guys requests by putting them up & publicising them.

but our job can be alot harder than it looks sometimes & trust me, we are all down to earth genuine girls who really do appreciate any sort of fanmail. its so nice to come to work and be surprised with lovely stuff from fans. but, we honestly never expect much... and even if we get nothing at all we do not get angry. we still just work hard to entertain you all who are watching! whether you call, text, send letters/presents,post on the forum.... or just sit at home & do nothing else but watch!

hope this makes some sense & sheds some light on WHY we have wishlists

xxxxxx

I would like to thanks for her comments and I hoped she doesn't mind, but I checked out her tweets and her wishlist. Yes I do agree, you will get fans who want to buy gifts for Christmas and birthdays.

The items on your wishlist are just perfume, shoes, underwear and clothing. To me that's a normal wishlist and since the beginning of December, you only tweeted once about your wishlist. In my eyes your using your wishlist how they should be used, like Alice Goodwin and Nikki Lee are as well.

But you are not on Twitter, asking for £1000 computer and demanding you want it now! These actions are the ones that annoy me.

Also I do understand you and other models are not psychologists, so you do not know who are being just extra friendly and those who have mental issues.

Just be careful of stalkers, who might misinterpret what happens went a model accepts a gift.

Hmmm...some interesting points made there Hannah, and thanks for that.

However, this thread has been running for TWENTY days now, and it's FIFTEEN days since the last posting.

So why has it taken you so long to decide to make a contribution to this thread? Could it possibly be anything to do with it being a timely reminder just, oh what is it now...just FIVE days before Valentine's Day?

Can you a) see how cynical you make yourself seem, and b) how unclassy you make yourself sound compared with the previous (also female) poster?

But good luck to you and I hope you get all the presents you wishlist for!

Far from Hannah dropping subtle hints about it being valentines day soon, i would like to commend her and all the other girls who take such an interest in their callers psychological and emotional needs. I too have a financial domination fetish, but in my case i have an overwhelming desire for attractive young women to buy me presents and for them to do my every bidding.

And yes i am more than happy to have them force their offerings upon me.

Looking forward to hearing from you soon girls.